February, Month of Love?

Hi there,

I’m back again, to share new thoughts about what happen in my life today. Okay, let’s begin.

Today is 14th February 2011, and perhaps everyone knows that it’s Valentine’s Day. A day that most of the people celebrate with their loved ones, the girls get flowers and chocolate from their boyfriends, including me. Well, actually today is my first time receiving a bouquet  of flower from my boyfriend. I thought he’s so not romantic because last year, I didn’t get anything and we just went to the cinema to watch Valentine’s Day (that’s the movie title).

And this year he really surprises me with this special delivery (which is its flowers) :D kinda like it actually, but bit embarrassed because near my office cubicle, none of the girls receive any flowers except me. And the boys like to tease me bout this flower thing.

Anyway, that flower story thing just one situation on the evening, while actually in the morning I keep murmuring on how I won’t celebrate valentine’s day, and how’s this morning weather so rainy so that I won’t be able to return the  McDonald Doorprize ticket back to McDonald at Sarinah Building, because hoping to win Ipad.

But, suddenly everything turn out to be a wonderful day. At Mid day, the rain stops so that I can go to the McD store to return the ticket for goodie bag (already hopeless for the doorprize ticket) but when I pass over the ticket, the woman there says that the Doorprize will be announced in 15 minutes and I still can hand over the doorprize ticket. And I receive the goodie bag and went upstairs to buy a cup of cafe latte in McCafe.

After that I wait a while to hear the DoorPrize winner announcement, starting from Ipod Shuffle as the price, then Digital Camera. When they announce the Digital Camera winner I can’t believe that I hear my number being announce. And I feel my hands are shaking :p even when I told my boyfriend n friend through BBM – Blackberry messenger, I can see it’s shaking :D. But there’s one problem, I forgot to bring my purse, so there’s no ID that I use to pick up the doorprize.

So, I went back to my office (luckily my office really near to Sarinah building) to put the goodie bag and bring my purse and went straight back to Sarinah. And I still no idea where to pick that prize after all. Finally I ask the official and he said that I must go to that white tent to pick the price. In that tent I hand over my ID Card and the Coupon then I was asked to take picture with the prize. Then I went back to the office in rainy weather. Well I bring my umbrella, but my trousers so wet (in the leg side) but I think it’s worth it.

Back to Yesterday I spend half an hour waiting for the counter to open, so I can pick up the Doorprize ticket and Goodie bag ticket. And I feel worth it when I can win something.

Well, so happy for today, not only its valentine’s day that I receive any Doorprize, but also I receive the flower from my loved one, and I felt really blessed bout life.

If it’s meant to be yours, It will be. So just going where the wind blows, never give up on hope, because you’ll never know what would happen next. What life has brought is really beautiful, all the people around you, all the moments that happening around you is really precious.

So, enjoy it, appreciate it, be thankful for everything and don’t regret anything. Because I once heard : Worry doesn’t remove the sorry of tomorrow, It removes the strength of today. If you already lose your strength how can you survive your day/your life :D

Special thanks to my ‘Panda’ I hope you won’t stop care about me. love you dear :D

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Mother

Mother (in English) – Madre (in Italian) -Moeder (in Dutch) - Mutter (in Germany) – Mater (in Latin) – Mor (in Norwegian) – Ibu (in Indonesian)

Finally, I started my own new blog. Let’s begin with the word “Mother”, because  it’s been bothering me in few days about this topic. Well, actually since I was sick in few days back then, so I got to stay at home and doing nothing but browsing and resting. Too much sleep will kill you? Haha, I don’t have the answer for that. But being at home in sick condition really not a good option to escape from office works for me.

Why I got this idea? I think it’s because, when Me or My Brother get sick, I can see how my mother so worried about us. How her nature instinct react, to protect her children, to take care of her children, try to do any possible ways to cure her children. She can’t bear to see the pain that her children struggling with. I bet she rather switch place if she can so her children won’t suffer anymore pain.

Lots of questions across my mind such as, what have I done to make my Mom happy? Is she proud of me? Is she glad to have a  daughter like me? Will she ever get tired being my mom? Well, I guess I can’t answer that, My mom sure can answer that. But I think I don’t have enough courage to ask her about that.

Remembering back then when I was a child, my mom used to get things done about my school schedule, preparing my meal, remembering to bring all those books and equipments, patiently teaching me to memorize school subject when it’s time for final test. And she still able to help my dad at the shop. Wow, she can multitasking and she’s a hard worker too.

But there were times when you’re a teenager, when you feel rebellious. Didn’t want to hear any suggestion from her. You have your own world, youth world that you think so very different perspective from your parents. And you becoming naughty, didn’t obey rules, fight with your brothers and parents.  In time, you’ll realized that what your parents have told you becoming reality, and you feel sorry and stupid because of that.

Well, regrets always come later. But parents always forgive you, believe you, never gave up on you. Will you ever think that what you have said and done ever hurt your parent’s heart, specially your mom. When I was a teenager I guess I never thought that. Times can change the way you think, specially with so many people who ever come and go into your life.

In my teenager time, I remember this song title “Mama” from Spice Girls. And I still memorize its lyrics. “Back then I didn’t know why, Why you were misunderstood, So now I see through your eyes, All that you did was love” Yes, now I know why at that time my mom become so irritating to me. Because all that she did was Love. She didn’t want me to lost track, to destroy my own future, but to guide me back to the right path. Thank you mom for pulling me back to the right track.

Now, lately I’ve been thinking how to stay on the right track if there’s no mom? I can’t image that, I’ll be so lost n so confused. And it made me realized that, with this little time, I must try to make my mom happy, to make her proud of me, to repay back all what she has done for me, what she has sacrifice for me few years back then. Love you mom, and sorry for all what I’ve done to make you sad and hurt. I really didn’t mean that.

At the end, we must treasure each and every moment of our time to be with our loved ones, and live our life to the fullest, because we only live once, right? Hope you guys enjoy the reading.

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Here, There, And Everywhere

Artist:

Beatles

Album:

Real Love (Single)

Title:

Here, There, And Everywhere

 

   

To lead a better life I need my love to be here…
Here, making each day of the year
Changing my life with the wave of her hand
Nobody can deny that there’s something there

There, running my hands through her hair
Both of us thinking how good it can be
Someone is speking but she doesn’t know he’s there

I want her everywhere and if she’s beside me
I know I need never care
But to love her is to need her everywhere
Knowing that love is to share

Each one believing that love never dies
Watching her eyes and hoping I’m always there

I want her everywhere and if she’s beside me
I know I need never care
But to love her is to need her everywhere
Knowing that love is to share

Each one believing that love never dies
Watching her eyes and hoping I’m always there

To be there and everywhere
Here, there and everywhere

 

 

 Ada yang pernah denger gak niiiih lagu? Aslinya sih yang nyanyiin emang The Beatles, tapi karena nadanya uenak buanget jadinya sekarang sih setau gue banyak yang nyanyiin, terakhir yang gue tau sih ini dinyanyiin ama Neri per caso dengan versi accapella nya? hmmm so cathcy in my ears…

I wish I can upload the song in this blog, but whenever I tried, always failed..huhuhu… :(

 

Anyway, this songs reminds me of a friend of mine that really like this song, actually I knew it accidently… because she copied her songs and I found why there’s 2 version of this song? she must be really like it. And it’s true, she told me that before that she had 5 version of this song… Hmm Lia, bener-bener lo suka banget yah ama lagu ini? tapi emang sih nih lagu enak banget, dan ternyata pas gue cari tau liriknya pun juga meaningful.

 

Untuk kali ini, sebaiknya ga di bahas deh satu per satu, karena kayaknya lagu ini agak general, sebenernya ditujuin buat cowok ke cewek, nah karena gue cewek, gue membahasnya dari perspektif gue aja ya… so you guys jangan kecewa ya…

 

Inti dari lagu ini adalah, Knowing that love is to share

dan Each one believing that love never dies
Do you all agree with me? jika kamu menyayangi seseorang, pastinya kamu akan berbagi banyak hal dengan seseorang itu

Entah dia adalah pacar kamu, atau sahabat kamu, atau adik/kakakmu ato sodara dan bahkan orang tua dan keluargamu… Setuju ga?

For example, kalo kamu lagi makan, trus inget ada satu menu kesukaan mama kamu, pastinya kamu juga akan beli bungkus buat nanti kamu bawa pulang dan kasih ke nyokap kan?

Ato, kalo kamu lagu jalan-jalan liburan, trus kalo pulang pastinya inget mau bawa makanan khas sana untuk kamu bagi buat keluargamu, atau temen-temen terdekatmu  ato bahkan kasih suvenir buat yayang kamu? bener kan….

Well, surely love is to share… Tapi kalo dari example di atas kok kesannya cuman materi aja yah, sebenernya sih bisa juga kamu sharing cerita kamu, bisa cerita sedih ato cerita seneng, pastinya temen/sahabat/pacar kamu akan mendengarkan dengan sepenuh hati, dan kalo lagi sedih pasti akan mendukungmu dan berada di sisi mu setiap saat.  

Yang terakhir adalah Each one believing that love never dies
yah, gue setuju kalau yang namanya cinat itu never dies.. tapi jangalah dies because of love… ngerti gak? hehehe, kata-katanya gue balik….

Iya lah, jangan lah menderita karena cinta ato bahkan mau mengakhiri hidup karena cinta,  ya ampuuuun deh, dunia ga selebar daun kelor, kenapa juga mau mengakhiri hidup, lha wong hidup itu adalah anugrah dari Yang Maha Kuasa loh, dan tidak semua orang berkesempatan untuk hidup, jadi kita harus menghargainya… bener gak? ayooo yang setuju angkat tangan.. :P

Hidup tanpa cinta rasanya adalah HAMPA, jadi inget ama lagunya Ari Lasso dengan judul yang sama… ada yang tau? Well, satu pesan aja deh, hiasi hidup anda dengan cinta, karena cinta itu berwarna-warni, jadi jangan lah takut menderita karena cinta, memang sometimes love hurts, tapi janganlah menderita berkepanjangan, karena hidup itu begitu indah untuk dijalani, masih banyak hal yang belum kita alami… still a long way to go..

Penutup niiiih, karena dah ga keruan tulisannya, mendingan disudahi saja deh, ini untuk menjawab pertanyaan dari beberapa pembaca yang comment kok blog ini ga ada cerita LOVE storynya.. hehehe meskipun ini juga ga bisa dikategorikan love story, well, at least i’ve tried my best to satisfied my fans (yeiiy, pede banget  ya punya fans ;p)

Oke, cya, bye n take care ^-*

 

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When You Believe

When You Believe

Whitney Houston & Mariah carey

Many nights we prayed
With no proof anyone could hear
In our hearts a hope for a song
We barely understood

Now we are not afraid
Although we know theres much to fear
We were moving mountains
Long before we knew we could, whoa, yes

There can be miracles
When you believe
Though hope is frail
Its hard to kill
Who knows what miracles
You can achieve
When you believe somehow you will
You will when you believe
[Mmmmmmmmmyeah]
Mmmyeah
In this time of fear
When prayer so often proves in vain
Hope seems like the summer bird
Too swiftly flown away
Yet now Im standing here
My hearts so full, I cant explain
Seeking faith and speakin words
I never thought I’d say

There can be miracles
When you believe (When you believe)
Though hope is frail
Its hard to kill (Mmm)
Who knows what miracles
You can achieve (You can achieve)
When you believe somehow you will
You will when you believe
[Hey]
[Ooh]
They don’t always happen when you ask
And its easy to give in to your fears
But when you’re blinded by your pain
Can’t see the way, get through the rain
A small but still, resilient voice
Says hope is very near, oh [Oh]
There can be miracles (Miracles)
When you believe (Boy, when you believe, yeah) [Though hope is frail]
Though hope is frail [Its hard]
Its hard to kill (Hard to kill, oh, yeah)
Who knows what miracles
You can achieve (You can achieve, oh)
When you believe somehow you will (Somehow, somehow, somehow)
Somehow you will (I know, I know, know)
You will when you believe [When you]
(Ohoh)
[You will when you]
(You will when you believe)
[Oohoohooh]
[Oh...oh]
[When you believe]
[When you believe]

(taken from www.lyricsdrive.com)

 

 

Oke, here we go again….

Udah lama gak nulis, sampe ga tau mau memulai dari mana lagi nih… well, hopefully my writing will satisfy all the readers of this simple blog of mine..

Ini salah satu lagu kesukaan gue, dan seinget gue juga ini salah satu lagu kesukaan my buddy at work/partner gue di office dulu Warna hehe this songs for you lah…(kayak request lagu di radio aja wkakaka :)) sayangnya nih lagu susah dinyanyiin kalo karaoke soalnya nadanya tinggi banget..ya iyalah, masa ya iya dunk, lha wong yang nyanyinya aja para diva gitu loooo, yang punya suara sampe 7 oktaf gitu… Sedangkan tipe suara gue mezzo sopran kecenderung ke alto malahan… yah pasti agak susah, pake suara falsetto, capek kaleee… (jadi teringat karaoke ama budget rangers di inul vista nih… aduh guys kapan nih karaoke lagi… :p)

 

This song, when you believe, I bet sounds famililar to you guys right? Old songs but still sounds nice to my ears…and the meaning of this song really give you strength…and also this song was sang by two diva, such as Whitney Houston and Mariah Carey… finally they both collaborate….two marvelous voices…

 

In the first line

Many nights we prayed
With no proof anyone could hear
In our hearts a hope for a song
We barely understood
Now we are not afraid
Although we know theres much to fear
We were moving mountains
Long before we knew we could, whoa, yes

Have you guys pray everday…specially when you go to bed at night? I hope you all don’t forget to pray. To say thanks to our GOD Almighty that really cares for Us each and every single second of our lives…I guess you guys ever heard that even a prayer can move a mountain, I do believe that. All you got to do is have Faith in all you do. And to me honestly when I feel sad, feel down, I do believe that pray can give me the streght to conquer all the burden that I feel, even when you feel fear of something by saying the prayer that you know simply can calm you down.

 

There can be miracles
When you believe
Though hope is frail
Its hard to kill
Who knows what miracles
You can achieve
When you believe somehow you will
You will when you believe
Next…. I do believe in miracels, perhaps you cannot call it miracles, but blessing is sounds better. Have you ever imagine that you are able to live until now because of HIS blessing, and to me it sounds like a miracle, through all the good times and bad times, right? I bet your parents must have suffered a time when they so worried because of your illness or because of your grades at school, or what so ever.. Well, my point is you must appreciate your own life, an be thankful because of it and never wasted it or never ever thinking ending your life because of something terrible happened to you… C’mon guys you only live once and why ever thinking of ending it… for me, I haven’t see the whole world so I don’t want to say goodbye to this world too early.

 

In this time of fear
When prayer so often proves in vain
Hope seems like the summer bird
Too swiftly flown away
Yet now Im standing here
My hearts so full, I cant explain
Seeking faith and speakin words
I never thought Id say

Yeah, hope seems like the summer bird too swiftly flown away… Oh…how I wish someday I will feel free like a bird, to fly away up high and see all the beauty that GOD creates…

When  you feel  your heart is so full and cannot explain, try to give yourself a time to pray, perhaps you don’t know how to say it in your prayer, but believe me, GOD knows all your problems, all your fears, all your happiness and sorrow… take your time…

 

They don’t always happen when you ask
And its easy to give in to your fears
But when you’re blinded by your pain
Can’t see the way, get through the rain
A small but still, resilient voice
Says hope is very near

Sometimes, you cannot get what you want, like what you asked for in your prayers, but believe me, HE got planned everything good for you, maybe what you asked for is not good for you in your future, or maybe the time is not right so you don’t get what you want this time, and you must believe that what ever happened to you is a blessing, a gift so sometimes it feels like a surprise… but you must try to enjoy it, and sometimes you can feel like it like a coincidence… hahaha…when it feels like coincidence you never knew what will happened next, right?

 

Anyway… setelah ngalor ngidul gak keruan pake bahasa inggris, yang mudah-mudahan kagak belepotan dan mudah dimengerti ama kalian para pembaca setia blog gue…
Adapun hal yang ingin gue sampaikan adalah, bahwa kalian jangan pernah berhenti berharap, berhenti percaya, berhenti bermimpi, karena hidup tanpa harapan dan mimpi, bukanlah hidup, melainkan seperti zombie, yang tidak punya harapan dan masa depan. Dengan mimpi kalian akan merasa lebih hidup, dengan percaya kalian akan merasa ada yang selalu mendampingi setiap langkah yang akan kalian ambil dalam hidup…

 

Oke, hopefully this blog can cheer you guys up dan give you guys new spirit to face this wild world out there.. Bye n Take Care :)

 

 

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Don’t Quit

Don’t quit

When things go wrong

As they sometimes will;

When the road you’re trudging

Seems all uphill;

When the funds are low

And the debts are high;

And you want to smile

But you have to sigh;

When care is pressing you

Down a bit,

Rest if you must,

But don’t you quit.

Success is failure turn inside out

The silver tint of

The clouds of doubt.

And you never can tell

How close you are,

It maybe near when it seems a far.

So stick to the fight

When you’re hardest hit,

Its when tings go wrong

That you must not quit

(author unknown)

Yeah… itu sepenggal kata-kata yang gue kutip dari pembatas buku yang dikasih ama my best friend at uni. Thanks ya Nad n Mon :)

Well, I just want to share a litte to you guys who often read my blog :), thanks for all the comments, I do really appreciate and do really need the comments, just incase I wrote something that didn’t proper. Or misspelling or wrong grammar, please correct me.

Oke, back to this blog again. Kalian pasti mikir, kok gue rajin amat update blog. Sebenernya hari ini ga pengen update sih, hehehe, tapi berhubung lagi feeling ‘empty’ jadi gue nulis deh, maybe it will make me feel better.

Today, it’s an important day for me, because my work finally done, after all this hard work, long overtime, tears, pain, n everything that needed to make this work done. But, after it’s done, why I just feel ‘empty’ not feel ‘relieve’?

I just don’t know why… maybe I’m a perfectionist like my zodiac sign, or maybe I just to worry about everything, or maybe I just not at my stable condition.. I just don’t have the answer right now…

I just felt that every courage I put on this work, was not worhted, the result was not like I expected. Maybe I expected too high? Because I tought I was well prepared, compared to last year? but why? I guess I just out of luck…..

During those time, sometimes I feel like to Quit, but when I looked at those words up there Don’t Quit, it burned up my spirit again, that I must realized that everything need to be struggled, nothing is easy, so I must not quit.

Do you all agree with me? that nothing comes for free or nothing is easy, even an infant/baby must learn how to blink, how to breathe, how to cry, how to swallow, how to chew, how to talk, how to walk, etc. About nothing comes for free, let me correct it, well sometimes something are come for free, such as the air that you breathe, view of the mountains/forest/sky/stars that your senses can enjoy the beauty, the smell, yeah I believe you would agree with me.

My point is, when things seems go wrong, you feel that you want to give up, don’t quit just keep trying, but at some point, I do agree that you have to let it go, if the things just don’t working well.

Ada yang bisa bantu gue gak mendeskripsikan: menyerah, dengan merelakan? Karena menurut gue, pada satu saat, kalian pasti akan berhadapan dengan suatu kasus dalam hidup dimana anda dihadapkan pada pilihan : Menyerah, atau Merelakan. (giving up or let it go). Sebenernya sih, kedua-duanya menurut gue kurang enak sih, tapi balik lagi tergantung kasusnya. Dengan merelakan, terkadang bukan berarti kita menyerah, dan dengan menyerah bukan berarti kita berhenti berjuang/malas.

Anyway, kayaknya blog kali ini ga nyambung antara kutipan Quote ama penjelasannya, karena gw emang lagi pengen curhat aja sih, soal hari ini yg membuat gue feeling ‘empty’. :(

Penutup… Gue teringat dengan kata-kata partner baru gue kalau kalian sedang merasa down, kerjaan banyak, under pressure or tight deadlines, just DON’T QUIT, because you got to believe that ada orang di luar sana yang bakal lihat hasil kerja keras elo, ga perlu elo cerita ato sesumbar dengan kerja keras elo, karena percaya deh suatu saat akan tiba saatnya dimana orang akan tau kualitas elo. (om BoB, gue lagi inget nih elo pernah ngomong gini, bener kan?)

Dah kepanjangan nih kayaknya, dan ga keruan isinya… tapi satu hal yang elo ga boleh nyerah, adalah you got to have faith in yourself. (ini yang lagi ga gue rasain pada diri gue, berarti gue kurang pede yaaaaaa….. bukan karena ga pake rexona loh :D) hahahaha…. dengan nulis membuat sedikit lega…

Oya, ada satu hal lagi, soal kesabaran, kayak Quote yang di akhir blog ini (boleh nyontek dari temen loh… hehehe, thanks ya Aripprad). Mungkin gue harus bisa lebih bersabar dalam menghadapi sesuatunya. Kalau hidup itu sulit, anda harus bisa menghadapinya jangan sampai mengacaukan diri anda sendiri.

Learn the art of patience. Apply discipline to your thoughts when they become anxious over the outcome of a goal. Impatience breeds anxiety, fear discouragement and failure. Patience creates confidence, decisiveness and a rational outlook, which eventually leads to succes

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At Your Side

When the daylight’s gone and you’re on your own
And you need a friend just to be around
I will comfort you, I will take your hand
And I’ll pull you through, I will understand

And you know that

I’ll be at your side, there’s no need to worry
Together we’ll survive through the haste and hurry
I’ll be at your side
If you feel like you’re alone, and you’ve nowhere to turn
I’ll be at your side

If life’s standing still and your soul’s confused
And you cannot find what road to choose
If you make mistakes (make mistakes)
You can’t let me down (let me down)
I will still believe (still believe)
I will turn around


And you know that

I’ll be at your side, there’s no need to worry
Together we’ll survive through the haste and hurry
I’ll be at your side
If you feel like you’re alone, and you’ve nowhere to turn
I’ll be at your side

I’ll be at your side
I’ll be at your side
You know that


I’ll be at your side, there’s no need to worry
Together we’ll survive through the haste and hurry
I’ll be at your side
If you feel like you’re alone, you’ve got somewhere to go,
‘Cos I’m right there
I’ll be at your side, I’ll be right there for you
(Together we’ll survive) through the haste and hurry
I’ll be at your side
If you feel like you’re alone, you’ve got somewhere to go,
‘Cos I’m at your side

I’ll be right there for you
I’ll be right there for you, yeah
I’m right at your side

At Your Side
Music & Lyrics: The Corrs
Transcript: http://www.corrsonline.com

Apakah dari kalian ada yang ngefans sama The Corrs? ayo angkat tangan..(jangan angkat kaki, nanti jatuh loo :P)

Well, gue ini salah satu penggemar beratnya The Corrs, itu kwartet asal Dublin Irlandia yang semuanya sodaraan, cewek-cewek cantik, tapi mereka bisa main musik, ga cuman ngandelin modal tampang doank… hehehe, kok jadi malah bahas soal grup musikya.. alooo error lagi niii.

Well, dari beberapa lagu mereka, ini salah satu favorite gue, karena saat gue lagi sedih, lagi down, lagi banyak kerjaan, disaat-saat terberat dalam hidup gue, gue dengerin lagu ini… coba deh kalian telisik lebih detail dan ngertiin artinya, gue yakin kalian pasti setuju deh ama gue, dijamin… (emangnya baygon jaminan mutu :P)

Oke, kita bahas yah satu per satu…

When the daylight’s gone and you’re on your own
And you need a friend just to be around
I will comfort you, I will take your hand
And I’ll pull you through, I will understand

Pastinya pernah dong kalian merasakan saat-saat kalian bener-bener sendirian, semuanya sendiri, tp pasti di saat itulah kalian akan merasakan hadirnya sahabat sejati yang pasti mendampingi di saat senang dan sedih, bisa itu sahabat atau soulmate kalian atau seseorang di atas sana yang terkadang tidak kita sadari yaitu GOD.

I’ll be at your side, there’s no need to worry
Together we’ll survive through the haste and hurry
I’ll be at your side
If you feel like you’re alone, and you’ve nowhere to turn
I’ll be at your side

Yeah, pastinya kalau ada seseorang yang mendukung, pastinya kita tidak akan kuatir (no need to worry) karena semuanya akan dilalui bersama-sama dengan saling mendukug satu sama lain.

If life’s standing still and your soul’s confused
And you cannot find what road to choose
If you make mistakes (make mistakes)
You can’t let me down (let me down)
I will still believe (still believe)
I will turn around

Kalimat di atas juga cukup menyemangati bahwa jika tidak ada seseorang yang tidak membantu disaat kita tersesat, atau hilang arah, disaat semua orang menyalahkan anda, pasti ada seseorang yang selalu percaya sama kita, dan selalu mendampingi kita yaitu…. GOD .

Yup, meski menurut gue, si The Corrs nyiptain lagu ini bukan karena worship, tapi lagu ini cukup mengena di hati gue. dan bukannya gue ga menganggap semua sahabat gue mendukung gue loooh… (kalian jangan marah ya), tp ada seseorang yang pasti tidak kalian sadari yaitu yang punya kuasa atas semuanya selalu mendampingi kita.

Pasti ada rencanaNya untuk kita, disaat kita mengalami semua masalah/musibah, kita harus bisa melihat suatu titik cerah, bahwa semuanya pasti berlalu, pasti akan ada matahari yang bersinar dibalik berakhirnya suatu badai…

So, buat kalian yang sedang merasa sedih, kesepian, di saat semua dunia meninggalkan anda, ingatlah akan kebesaran yang maha kuasa, yaitu TUHAN. Karena semua adalah rencanaNya, bagi kita umat-umatnya, agar bisa memperkaya diri kita menjadi seseorang yang lebih bijaksana dalam memandang dan menjalani hidup kita…

Wekks, maaf yah kalo kata-katanya terlalu berlebihan, tapi satu hal yang mau gue tegaskan, ini bukan berati di saat susah saja kita baru ingat GOD, tapi di setiap saat kita harus ingat kepadaNya, harus bisa bersyukur, mensyukuri semua yang telah diberikanNya kepada kita, baik semua kesulitan dan kebahagiaan dalam hidup kita.

Karena hidup adalalah sebuah perjalanan yang harus di jalani, dan penuh dengan lika-likunya, jangan lah kita pernah menyerah, karena dengan menyerah berarti anda sudah menyia-nyiakan hidup anda, karena pasti Sang Pencipta tidak akan setuju jika anda menyia-nyiakan hidup anda, tanpa berjuang terlebih dahulu. Pada dasarnya, saat manusia dilahirkan, dia sudah berjuang untuk hidup, dengan menangis… agar paru-paru terisi dengan udara sehingga bisa memompa jantung agar ada kehidupan.

So… udah kepanjangan nih kayaknya biar ga bosen, gue cuman ingetin agar tidak menyia-nyiakan hidup anda, terus bersyukur dan terus berjuang jangan pernah patah semangat. karena harus yakin bahwa selalu ada seseorang yang akan selalu disisi anda (AT YOUR SIDE.) dan seseorang itu bisa siapa saja, mulai dari strangers, family n friends, etc.

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Rasional Vs Emosional

Wow… kalo dari judulnya kayaknya sih berat nih topik kali ini yah…Hehehe, jangan nyerah gitu dunk…. I just want to share a little story about it.

Kenapa seringkali wanita di ibaratkan sisi yang selalu menempatkan Emosi sebagai hal yang utama, sedangkan pria di sisi yang Rasional? Well, maybe it because women are more sensitive in many ways, while men aren’t. But not all men are not sensitive…we can’t judge people, all we can do is learning to understand them and accept them the way they are.

Anyway, let’s start the story…

Pernahkan kalian dihadapkan pada suatu situasi dimana seharusnya pikiran Rasional yang bertindak, bukan Emosi yang bertindak? Pastinya pernah dunk.. gue yakin deh… J Tapi kadang, sering kali apa yang kita harapkan dari diri kita agar bertindak rasional disbanding emosional tidaklah semudah itu… Karena seringkali emosi yang pertama kali merasuki relung hati kita.. (cieeeh kata-katanya… ga kuat deh :p).

Misalnya, seseorang saat menerima kabar buruk atau kabar baik yang berhubungan dengan dirinya, apa reaksinya pertama kali? Pasti TERKEJUT (surprise…surprise… :))bukan kah demikian? Itu adalah reaksi yang normal dari semua orang, kecuali orang yang ga punya perasaan, dingin.. pastinya tidak ada ekspresinya. Well, dari hamper semua orang yang gue kenal sih begitu, pasti kaget / terkejut, Mulai dari kaget karena senang atau kaget karena takut. It’s normal…

Nah, Itu baru menerima kabar, nah tahap selanjutnya setelah menerima kabar itu, bagaimana reaksi selanjutnya, apakah kita bisa tetap berpikir rasional mengenai hal itu? Rasanya untuk hal rasional ini, tidak semua orang bisa menghadapinya. Benarkah itu… Well, I don’t mean to judge the people, but from my point of view, almost everybody couldn’t deal with the rational it self after they heard the news….

Maybe I’m one of them too… hehehe just being honest to myself. Yeah…kadangan setelah kita terima kabar, apa yang kita lakukan, umumnya kalo hal yang buruk membuat kita panic… hahaha, padahal kepanikan tidak akan menyelesaikan masalah….malah menambah masalah. Jadi teringat ama satu Quote : Worry doesn’t remove the sorrow of tomorrow, it removes the strength of today”So.. stop worrying, start thinking rationally.

By thinking rationally, we can open our heart n change our point of view in a positive way… (weleh jadi ada topic baru nih think positively). Don’t let emotion control you…because it tends to give bad influence for the people around us… Because if we get emotional, we tend to get angry and see everything not in a proper way…

Janganlah sampai kita dikendalikan oleh Emosi yang umumnya berakibat buruk bagi diri kita dan bagi orang-orang sekitar kita. Karena kalau kita emosi, kita cenderung Marah dan tidak dapat berpikir jernih sehingga melihat segala sesuatu itu salah/tidak benar.

Anyway…kayaknya ini udah ga kepanjangan basa basinya…. Hahaha mau ngalahin A mild nih ceritanya :p. Yang mau gue share disini adalah, kalau sedang menghadapi masalah, dan tidak bisa menahan emosi… ada baiknya kita menghindar dahulu dari orang sekitar kita, mencari tempat yang tenang untuk menenangkan diri, atau sekedar berteriak Aaaarrgggghhhh…ataupun menangis.. (tp jangan keras-keras malu loooh :)) mungkin bisa melepaskan emosi yang sudah tak tertahankan dan baru lah kita bisa berpikir lagi secara rasional. Untuk memikirkan apa langkah selanjutnya agar tidak lagi salah jalan…

Guys… semoga bacaan kali ini cukup menghibur kalian yah… Akhir kata… terima kasih mau baca blog gue dan kalo emang tidak menghibur mohon diisi aja comment apa aja, gue terima kok (lha wong gue bukan penulis professional :)) dan kalau saran dari gue ga berguna, mohon dimaapkan, karena terus terang..terang terus…philip terang terus (loooh kok jadi iklan sih :p)gue sendiri juga merasa gue kadangan masih belum bisa mengatur emosi..hihihi apalagi kalo menyangkut deadline, udah bawaannya senewen…maap yah temen-temen semua.. karena it’s nothing personal, it’s all because of work…

Dan, kalo ada masukan yang berguna lainnya, sangat diharapkan, bagaimana caranya mengatur emosi…ditunggu loh masukannya… Bye n Ciaoooo :)

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